Surrogacy or Adoption: What’s the Best Option for Indian Parents?

The decision to expand a family can take various forms, and in today’s world, both surrogacy and adoption offer hopeful paths for individuals and couples who cannot have biological children. In India, both these methods have become increasingly significant in recent years. However, choosing between surrogacy and adoption involves complex legal, emotional, ethical, and cultural considerations. This article aims to comprehensively compare and analyze both practices, offering an in-depth look into their definitions, governing laws, eligibility criteria, and various other factors that influence decision-making.


1. Definition of Surrogacy and Adoption

Surrogacy refers to an arrangement where a woman (surrogate mother) agrees to carry and deliver a child for another person or couple (intended parents), who will become the child's legal parents after birth. Surrogacy can be either traditional (where the surrogate’s egg is used) or gestational (where the embryo is created using the egg and sperm of the intended parents or donors, with no genetic link to the surrogate).

Adoption, on the other hand, is a legal process through which a person or couple takes on the responsibility of raising a child who is not their biological offspring. The child’s legal ties to their biological parents are severed, and the adoptive parents gain full rights and responsibilities for the child. In India, adoption is governed by specific laws that ensure the child’s welfare and best interests.

2. Governing Laws

Surrogacy: The Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021, is the primary legislation governing surrogacy in India. This Act aims to regulate commercial surrogacy, allowing only altruistic surrogacy for heterosexual married couples. The law prohibits foreign nationals, single parents, and same-sex couples from engaging in surrogacy. The Act seeks to ensure ethical practices, prevent exploitation of women, and provide legal clarity for both surrogate mothers and intended parents.

Adoption: Adoption in India is governed by various laws depending on the religion of the adoptive parents:

The Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956 (HAMA) for Hindus, Buddhists, Jains, and Sikhs.

The Guardian and Wards Act, 1890, which applies to Muslims, Christians, and others.

The Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2015 (JJ Act) regulates adoption for all categories of people, including those from different religious backgrounds. The JJ Act has a dedicated framework for inter-country adoption and ensures that adoption is carried out through accredited agencies to safeguard the child's interests.

3. Eligibility Criteria

1. Eligibility of Intended Parents

The eligibility criteria for intended parents (those seeking to engage in surrogacy) are laid out under the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021 and can be summarized as follows:

Marital Status:

·        The intended parents must be an Indian, heterosexual, and legally married couple. Single individuals, unmarried couples, and same-sex couples are not eligible for surrogacy under the law. However, a widow/divorcee woman aged between 35 and 45 is allowed to have a surrogate child.

·        The law requires the couple to be legally married (i.e., married under either Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, Special Marriage Act, 1954, etc.), with a valid marriage certificate.

Age Limit:

·        The woman in the couple should be between the ages of 23 and 50 years at the time of initiating the surrogacy procedure.

·        The man should be between the ages of 26 and 55 years.

Medical and Genetic Requirements:

·        The intended parents must be infertile (unable to conceive naturally or through medical intervention). The law specifies that if one of the intended parents is biologically infertile, surrogacy can be pursued.

·        In cases where the couple has a child together, surrogacy is allowed only if one of the parents is infertile. If both parents are fertile, they are ineligible for surrogacy.

Number of Children:

·        The couple must not have any surviving biological children, including adopted children, except in cases of infertility. In cases where one or both intended parents have children from a previous marriage or relationship, they will be ineligible for surrogacy, unless one of the parents is infertile.

Prohibition of Commercial Surrogacy:

·        Commercial surrogacy is prohibited under the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021. Intended parents can only pursue altruistic surrogacy, which means that the surrogate mother is not paid for her services apart from reasonable medical expenses and insurance coverage.

Foreign Nationals:

·        Foreign nationals are not allowed to pursue surrogacy in India. The law limits surrogacy to Indian citizens and overseas citizens of India (OCI). Additionally, intended parents must be residing in India for at least 5 years before seeking surrogacy.

Certificate of Medical Fitness:

·        Intended parents are required to present a certificate of medical fitness from a registered medical practitioner, confirming the need for surrogacy as a medical necessity.

Regulation of Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART):

·        The ART clinics and banks used by the intended parents for the procedure must be registered with the National Surrogacy Board or State Surrogacy Boards. These clinics must meet the prescribed ethical and medical standards.

2. Eligibility of Surrogate Mothers

The eligibility criteria for surrogate mothers are also specified in the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021 to protect their physical and mental well-being and to ensure that the surrogacy process does not lead to exploitation. These criteria are as follows:

Age Limit:

·        A surrogate mother must be between the ages of 25 and 35 years. This age range is determined to ensure the health and safety of both the surrogate and the child. Women under 25 are considered too young to undergo surrogacy, while women over 35 may face higher health risks associated with pregnancy.

Previous Childbearing:

·        The surrogate must have at least one child of her own. This ensures that the surrogate is physically capable of carrying a pregnancy and is emotionally prepared to part with the child after birth. Women who have not had their own children may not be eligible to act as a surrogate, as they may lack experience in pregnancy and childbirth.

Marital Status:

·        The surrogate must be married and should have her spouse’s consent in writing. The law requires this to ensure that the surrogate’s family is fully aware of and agrees to her participation in the surrogacy process.

Surrogacy History:

·        A woman can act as a surrogate only once in her lifetime. This provision is designed to prevent the exploitation of women by limiting the number of times they can carry children for others. A woman who has previously been a surrogate is not eligible to participate in another surrogacy arrangement.

Medical and Psychological Health:

·        The surrogate must be medically and psychologically fit to undergo surrogacy. This includes undergoing thorough medical tests to ensure she is physically capable of carrying a pregnancy without significant risk to her health and that of the child. A psychological evaluation is also required to ensure that the surrogate fully understands the emotional implications of surrogacy and is mentally prepared.

No Commercial Motivation:

·        Surrogates are only allowed to be compensated for medical expenses and insurance, as surrogacy is meant to be altruistic, not commercial. Exploitation of surrogates for financial gain is prohibited, and the law mandates that surrogates cannot receive any payment other than reimbursement for medical costs, insurance, and legal expenses related to the surrogacy.

Residency Requirement:

·        The surrogate must be an Indian citizen and must reside in India during the surrogacy process. This is to ensure that the surrogate mother is protected by Indian laws and that her rights are respected throughout the process.

Regulation of ART Clinics:

·        Similar to the intended parents, the surrogate mother must undergo the procedure through a registered ART clinic that adheres to the legal and medical standards set by the National Surrogacy Board.

3. Prohibited Cases for Surrogacy

The law specifically prohibits certain categories of individuals from entering into surrogacy arrangements:

·        Single Men and Women: Single men and women are not allowed to enter into surrogacy agreements. The Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021, restricts surrogacy to married couples.

·        Same-Sex Couples: Same-sex couples, whether married or unmarried, are not allowed to engage in surrogacy under the current legal framework.

·        Commercial Surrogacy: The law completely prohibits commercial surrogacy (where the surrogate is compensated beyond reasonable medical expenses) to prevent exploitation and ensure ethical practices.

·        Foreign Nationals: As mentioned earlier, foreign nationals are banned from seeking surrogacy services in India under the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act. This provision is intended to prevent India from becoming a destination for surrogacy tourism.

·        Minors and Vulnerable Groups: Surrogacy arrangements are prohibited for minors and women from vulnerable backgrounds who could be coerced into participating in such arrangements for financial reasons.

4. Legal Provisions and Protection of Rights

·        National Surrogacy Board: The establishment of the National Surrogacy Board under the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021, plays a key role in overseeing surrogacy practices and ensuring that they are ethical and compliant with the law.

·        Rights of the Child: The child born through surrogacy is entitled to the same rights as any biological child. The intended parents will become the legal parents of the child upon birth, and they are responsible for the child’s upbringing and welfare.

·        Legal Parentage: The parental rights of the intended parents are established through a legal procedure after the child is born. The surrogate mother has no legal rights over the child once the parental rights are transferred to the intended parents.

·        Contracts and Documentation: The Surrogacy (Regulation) Act requires that all surrogacy agreements be executed in writing, ensuring that the surrogate’s consent is fully documented and that the terms of the surrogacy are clearly defined. The agreement should specify the rights and obligations of both the intended parents and the surrogate mother.

Adoption

General Provisions (Under the Juvenile Justice Act, 2015)

The Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2015 (JJ Act) is the central legislation governing adoption in India. The Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), a government body under the Ministry of Women and Child Development, is responsible for overseeing adoption procedures and ensuring that the adoption process is fair, ethical, and follows the guidelines set out by the JJ Act.

The eligibility of adoptive parents under the JJ Act, 2015 includes the following criteria:

Age Criteria:

·        Single Adoptive Parents: A single person can adopt a child. The minimum age of the adoptive parent is 25 years, and they must be at least 25 years older than the child they wish to adopt. However, a single male is not eligible to adopt a girl child

·        Married Couples: For a married couple, the maximum combined age of both partners should be at least 110 years. In this case, both husband and wife must consent to the adoption.

·        Minimum Age for Couples: The husband must be at least 26 years of age, and the wife must be at least 25 years of age to adopt.

·        Age Difference: The adopted child must be at least 25 years younger than the adoptive parent. In case of a couple, the age difference is considered between the child and the younger of the two spouses.

Marital Status:

·        Married Couples: Adoption is allowed for married couples, regardless of whether the marriage is of short or long duration. The law requires both spouses to consent to the adoption.

·        Single Individuals: Single individuals, whether male or female, are eligible to adopt. However, single male individuals cannot adopt a female child unless there are exceptional circumstances.

·        Widowed or Divorced Individuals: A widowed or divorced person may adopt, provided they meet the age criteria and demonstrate a stable and supportive environment for the child.

Health and Financial Stability:

·        Adoptive parents must be mentally and physically fit to adopt a child. They need to provide medical certificates to confirm their health status.

·        Financial stability is also a key consideration. Adoptive parents should be able to provide for the child's needs, which is assessed based on their income, education, and overall financial condition.

·        The guidelines suggest that adoptive parents must be capable of taking responsibility for the child’s upbringing, including healthcare, education, and emotional needs.

No Discrimination Based on Religion or Community:

·        The JJ Act ensures that adoption is open to people from all religions, irrespective of their community, caste, or creed. The law aims to eliminate discrimination based on religion in adoption and focuses solely on the welfare of the child.

Adoption of Children from Other Countries (Inter-Country Adoption):

·        The Inter-Country Adoption process is regulated by CARA under the JJ Act. Indian citizens living abroad, Non-Resident Indians (NRIs), and Overseas Citizens of India (OCI) are eligible to adopt Indian children.

·        Foreign nationals can also adopt Indian children, but they need to comply with the norms set out by both the Indian authorities and the laws of their respective countries.

·        Foreign citizens, however, must first apply through CARA, and the adoption procedure will be supervised in accordance with international treaties such as the Hague Convention on Inter-Country Adoption (1993), to which India is a signatory.

Specific Provisions Under the Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956 (HAMA)

HAMA governs the adoption process specifically for Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhists, and Jains. Under this law, the following eligibility criteria apply:

Husband and Wife (Couple Adoption):

·        A Hindu male or female (who is not married to another person) can adopt.

·        A married Hindu couple can adopt a child together. The husband must consent to the adoption, and the wife must be of sound mind and able to give her consent.

·        There is no age limit specified in HAMA for the adoptive parents, but the general practice follows that the adoptive parent must be at least 21 years older than the child.

Age of the Child

Maximum Composite Age of Perspective Adoptive Parents (Couple)

Minimum Age of Single Prospective Adoptive Parent

Up to 2 years

85 years

40 years

Above 2 and up to 4 years

90 years

45 years

Above 4 and up to 8 years

100 years

50 years

Above 8 and up to 18 years

110 years

55 years

 

Single Individuals:

·        A single male (whether widowed or unmarried) can adopt a male child, while a single female can adopt both male and female children.

·        A widowed or divorced person can adopt a child as long as they meet the necessary age and mental health requirements.

Age Difference:

·        The adoptive parent must be at least 21 years older than the child.

Adoption of Step-children:

·        Under HAMA, step-parents (one spouse adopting the child of the other) are allowed to adopt the child, provided that both the biological parents consent.

Provisions Under the Guardian and Wards Act, 1890

The Guardian and Wards Act, 1890 governs adoption for Muslims, Christians, Parsis, and other communities who are not covered by HAMA. This Act allows individuals or couples to adopt children, but it doesn't constitute a full legal adoption (in the sense of severing the child’s ties with biological parents). Instead, it is a guardianship arrangement where the adoptive parents take over the guardianship of the child.

Eligibility of Guardians:

·        Any Indian citizen, whether single or married, can apply for guardianship under this Act. The court decides the suitability of the guardian based on the welfare of the child.

·        Muslim individuals may adopt children, but the law does not sever the parental rights of the biological parents, unlike full adoption laws.

No Age Restrictions:

·        The Act does not set any specific age limits for the adoptive parent but emphasizes the suitability of the guardian based on the best interest of the child.

Prohibited Cases for Adoption

·        Couples with Biological Children: According to the JJ Act, adoption by a couple is restricted if they have more than two surviving biological children, except in cases of special needs children or where one of the adoptive parents is infertile.

·        No Adoption by Same-Sex Couples: Same-sex couples are not eligible to adopt under the Indian legal framework, as adoption is generally restricted to heterosexual couples or single individuals.

·        Psychological Fitness: If the prospective parents are deemed to be psychologically unfit to raise a child, they are disqualified from adoption. Psychological assessments are carried out to evaluate fitness.

·        Criminal Conviction: A person convicted of a criminal offense or who has a criminal record involving the exploitation or abuse of children is ineligible to adopt.

·        Non-Compliance with Legal Norms: The adoption process must comply with the established norms under CARA and the respective legal provisions. Failure to follow the rules, such as engaging in illegal adoption practices or providing false information, will lead to disqualification.

4. Major Differences Between Surrogacy and Adoption

Aspect

Surrogacy

Adoption

Definition

A woman carries a child for another couple or individual.

A person or couple legally takes the responsibility of raising a child.

Legal Framework

Governed by the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021.

Governed by the Juvenile Justice Act, 2015, HAMA, and the Guardian and Wards Act, 1890.

Eligibility (Intended Parents)

Indian, Married, & only heterosexual couples aged 23-50 years (women), 26-55 years (men). Besides, divorced/widow woman aged 35-45 also eligible.

Indian citizens, NRIs; age criteria vary (25 years and above).

Eligibility (Surrogate Mother)

A married woman aged 25-35, and must have at least one child of her own.

N/A

Financial Costs

Usually very high, including medical, legal, and compensation to the surrogate.

Relatively lower, as most adoption processes involve minimal fees, mostly related to agency costs.

Time Duration

Can take 12 to 15 months (including gestational period).

Adoption can take several months to years depending on child availability.

Cultural and Ethical Considerations

Mixed reactions; often considered controversial due to exploitation risks.

Generally accepted as a virtuous act, but there can be societal stigma regarding adopting children from orphanages.

 

5. Surrogacy vs. Adoption: Which One is Better?

Choosing between surrogacy and adoption in India is complex and subjective. Both options have different legal frameworks, eligibility requirements, and cultural implications. To make a fair comparison, we’ll analyze the two based on several important factors:

A. Eligibility

Surrogacy has stringent eligibility requirements for both intended parents and the surrogate mother. Intended parents must be a married heterosexual couple, and the surrogate mother must be married with at least one child of her own. In contrast, adoption has broader eligibility criteria, and single parents or couples with biological children can adopt, subject to age restrictions and the number of children already in the family.

B. Procedural Requirements

Surrogacy involves a complex medical procedure as well as legal process, which can be lengthy. The intended parents must go through fertility treatments to create embryos, followed by legal procedures to confirm parentage post-birth.

Adoption involves an in-depth legal procedure (but no medical procedure), including the child’s background check, legal free status declaration, and sometimes long waiting times. The process may be prolonged due to bureaucratic delays or a lack of adoptable children.

C. Cost

Surrogacy generally involves significant costs, especially in the case of commercial surrogacy, which includes medical fees, compensation for the surrogate mother, and legal costs. Adoption, on the other hand, is more affordable, with costs primarily associated with agency fees and travel expenses if adopting a child from another state or country.

D. Time Taken

Surrogacy is relatively faster when compared to adoption. A typical surrogacy process takes around 12 to 15 months (including pregnancy period), while adoption can take months or even years, depending on the availability of a child and the state of the legal process; in other words, time period is unpredictable.

E. Emotional and Ethical Considerations

Surrogacy raises several emotional and ethical concerns, including the potential exploitation of surrogate mothers, the emotional attachment of the surrogate to the child, and the risks of commodifying reproduction.

Adoption involves emotionally complex issues for the adoptive parents, especially if the child has a traumatic past. Adoptive parents may also face societal biases and stigma, particularly in cases of adoption from orphanages.

F. Cultural Aspect

Culturally, adoption is seen as a noble and compassionate act, although there is sometimes a stigma attached to adopting children, especially from orphanages or less privileged backgrounds. Surrogacy, while gaining acceptance, often faces criticism for its commercial aspects and ethical concerns surrounding the exploitation of women.

Likewise, choosing between surrogacy and adoption is not about which option is "better" but rather about what suits an individual or couple's circumstances. The decision depends on personal, legal, emotional, and financial factors. Here's a simplified explanation:

Eligibility Matters:

Everyone eligible for surrogacy, is also eligible to adopt. On the other hand, not everyone eligible for adoption is allowed to pursue surrogacy. For example, single individuals, same-sex couples, and certain age groups can adopt but cannot opt for surrogacy under Indian laws.

Financial Considerations: Surrogacy is very costly, involving medical and legal expenses. So, for those unable to afford surrogacy, adoption becomes the only feasible option.

Cultural and Personal Preferences: Couples who can afford surrogacy and prioritize having a genetically related child may prefer surrogacy over adoption. Others may choose adoption for ethical or emotional reasons, such as giving a home to an orphaned or abandoned child.

The Core Decision: For those eligible for both options, the choice hinges on their readiness to raise a child—biological or adopted—and their comfort with the legal, emotional, and cultural aspects involved.

5. Conclusion

In conclusion, both surrogacy and adoption are valuable paths to building a family, each shaped by unique legal, emotional, financial, and cultural considerations. For some, eligibility or financial constraints may limit their options, while for others, personal preferences like genetic connection or ethical beliefs may guide their choice. Ultimately, the decision should reflect the couple's readiness to embrace parenthood and their understanding of the responsibilities and joys that come with raising a child, regardless of the path chosen. Both routes lead to the same beautiful destination—a family built on love and care.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is the primary difference between surrogacy and adoption?

Surrogacy involves the birth of a child carried by a surrogate mother, where the intended parents may have a genetic connection to the child. Adoption, on the other hand, is the legal process of permanently taking responsibility for a child born to someone else.

2. Who is eligible for surrogacy and adoption in India?

In India, surrogacy is limited to married heterosexual Indian couples and widowed or divorced women between 35 and 45 years old. Homosexual couples, unmarried individuals, and foreigners are not eligible for surrogacy. Adoption, however, is open to a broader range of individuals, including single men and women, though eligibility criteria differ based on the age and marital status of the prospective adoptive parents.

3. Which is more expensive—surrogacy or adoption?

Surrogacy is significantly more expensive due to medical treatments, surrogate compensation, and legal fees. Adoption, while not free, is generally more affordable since it does not involve medical expenses or surrogate compensation.

4. Does surrogacy guarantee a child, and is it faster than adoption?

No, surrogacy does not guarantee a child, as medical procedures involved can be unpredictable and may require multiple attempts. Both surrogacy and adoption involve lengthy legal processes, but surrogacy tends to be more time-consuming due to complex medical and legal formalities.

5. Can single individuals opt for surrogacy or adoption?

Single individuals cannot opt for surrogacy under Indian law. However, single men and women can adopt children, subject to specific age and gender rules for the child.

6. What cultural or societal factors influence the choice between surrogacy and adoption?

In India, societal preference for a biologically related child often leans couples toward surrogacy, especially if they are financially capable. Adoption may face stigma in certain communities but is increasingly being seen as a noble way to provide a home for children in need.

7. Which option is better for couples wanting a genetic connection to their child?

Surrogacy is the only option for couples desiring a genetic connection to their child when natural conception is not possible. Adoption does not provide this genetic link.

8. What are the legal frameworks for surrogacy and adoption in India?

Surrogacy is governed by the Surrogacy (Regulation) Act, 2021, which imposes strict eligibility and procedural criteria. Adoption is regulated under the Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2015, and guidelines by CARA (Central Adoption Resource Authority).

9. Can a couple choose both surrogacy and adoption?

Yes, a couple can pursue both options if they meet the eligibility criteria. However, each path requires careful consideration of legal, emotional, and financial factors.

10. What factors should guide the decision between surrogacy and adoption?

Couples should consider their eligibility, financial resources, desire for a genetic connection, readiness for legal and medical procedures, and cultural preferences when deciding between surrogacy and adoption.

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